One thing that i have noticed is the association of masculinity and appearing angry, macho or disinterested. i'd really like to see that narrative changed. Masculinity can show joy and vulnerability while still remaining masculine. Masculinity is also not tied to a gender. It took me a long time to realize that, but it was really freeing.
masculine of center is very comfortable for me. growing up, i remember hating dressing up for occasions. but once i was comfortable enough in my own skin and started dressing up in suits and ties, i absolutely love it. now i make up reasons to throw on a bowtie (like, it's cloudy today... BOWTIE!). I have started to dive into "mens" style, and make it my own. i really love challenging the social norm and show that women can be beautiful in a suit and tie--because an article of clothing doesn't have a gender, our culture just categorizes it that way