To me, masculinity is a feeling. Growing up I didn't know how to feel and as I got older I found myself and began to really love who I have become. I have never felt comfortable in girls clothes, when I was young you wouldn't catch me in a dress. When I was a teenager, it was apparent that I had no idea who I really was. Going to prom in a dress, having long hair, feeling completely lost as an individual....it wasn't until my mid to late 20's that I realized who I really was and how I really felt about masculinity. I dress the way that I do because it makes me feel confident and handsome. Because I dress this way, people assume that I am masculine.....I can say that yes I am, but I am definitely feminine as well. I am who I am and I don't want to put a label on myself.